Joe's story:
The love story “for me” would begin as a young school boy probably in the 3rd grade. I remember telling a friend that “if there is anyone I would like to marry someday, it would be Gina”.
Fast forward to about 6 years later and I still had a crush on Gina. I got to see her quite a bit because of mid-week prayer meetings and youth gatherings. It was that summer, and through various circumstances that I decided I really liked her and someday I would want to marry her.
Throughout the next couple years I watched her and saw a lot of qualities that really attracted me to her. Her desire to follow to Christ and her diligence in completing high school spoke volumes to me. Then in 2009 just before I moved to PA, with prayer and the peace of God, I asked her about our friendship; she was a little shocked, which kinda’ scared me, but soon after that she gave me her answer (a definite “YES”, agreeing to eventually be more than just my friend). Because she was going to college and didn’t need me for a "distraction", we decided to wait for a while, before getting involved in anything beyond a friendship.
Dec. 23, 2011, marked our first “official” date. On Dec. 26, we announced our relationship to the youth group in Michigan. And on the 27th, Facebook and the world found out.
God has been so awesome to me; I feel like the most incredibly blessed guy ever!!!
I LOVE you GINA!!
"Delight thyself also in the LORD; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart." Ps 37:4
~Joe
Gina's story:
Actually pinpointing when I started liking Joe as more than just a friend is hard, because I’ve known him since I was 6 years old. Not until I was 14 years old, did I actually admit to someone that I really really liked him, but my biggest desire was to just be his friend. I didn’t want to get so caught up in my emotions that I would lose the chance of developing a great friendship. Throughout the next 4 years, I got to know Joe well, since we were involved in many of the same youth activities and other things. Seeing him grow in Christ and confidence, besides his fun-loving personality, really attracted me to him.
When I was 18 years old, I had several consecutive dreams of marrying someone else, which made me realize that if my future with Joe were to never develop beyond a friendship, I would be devastated. I began to realize how caught up emotionally I really was with him—the exact thing I wanted to avoid—and at that point, I made up my mind to completely surrender this guy over to God and totally give up ever having a future relationship with him.
My complete focus turned to God as I allowed Him to work out the details of my life. I watched Him open doors for me to attend college (my major is nursing), and I used to think that AFTER I graduated, maybe God would bring along an amazing young guy to capture my heart. I was completely shocked and blown away one night (over a year later) after having a conversation with Joe about there possibly being a future between the two of us. In my mind, I thought God was trying to show me through those dreams that Joe would never be more than just my friend. Looking back, I understand that God was using the dreams to make me realize I had to change my focus to HIM and let Him lead me because my own plans will get “in the way.”
Various circumstances and conversations with parents and other trusted individuals, plus a TON OF PRAYER, lead me to the conclusion that my Knight in Shining Armor is Joe Miller. Although we live 600+ miles away from each other, right now, I’m getting to know him on a completely different level. It’s exciting, and I feel like the most blessed person on earth.
“Those who wait for the Lord will gain new strength; they will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run and not get tired; they will walk and not become weary.” (Is. 40:31)
Waiting for God and His timing is everything!
editor's note:
Joe proposed on July 14th, the same day as Marty and Deborah's wedding. (FYI Marty is Gina's brother) Of course Gina wasn't expecting anything after the already big day!
Please keep Joe and Gina in your prayers as they plan and prepare for their wedding later this year.
And of course, don't forget to flood the comment box with congratulations!